Dating is fun, isn’t it? You get to hang out with someone you like and get to do fun things that you would otherwise not get the opportunity to do. And of course, have sex if you’re lucky. But as is the case with everything else in life – nothing remains constant. Everything has to move on and the same rule applies to the dynamic you share with this girl. Now the question is, is she happy being where she is with you or is she looking for something more?

Signs She Wants a Relationship with You

Of course, the best thing to do is to sit down and talk things out with her. But if for whatever reason that is not an option, keep an eye out for the following signs to know for sure that she really wants a relationship with you.

She’s introduced her friends and family to you

Look, women take their friendships and family seriously so if she’s made an effort to get people who are close to her to know you, then it obviously means she sees you as a lot more than just a date or a guy she has sex with. It could also mean she’s introducing you to them in order to see what they think of you, which again means you mean a lot to her.


She actually listens to you

If a girl really likes you, she will go out of her way to listen to what you have to say to her. The more you open up to her, the more she’s eager to listen to you. That’s because she wants to create a deeper emotional bond with you.


She remembers small details about you

Women have 1001 things to worry about, so if she takes the time and effort to remember small things about you that you mentioned to her in passing, it is definitely one of the signs she wants a relationship with you. Because obviously, a woman who sees you as nothing more than a means to have sex will not even bother to get to know your fav baseball team, your hobbies and passion.


She discusses serious issues with you

Topics like politics, religion, philosophy or even things as mundane as Marvel v/s DC are being brought up suddenly. Your conversations turn serious from time to time and you have noticed this for some time. The thing is, she’s simply trying to get to know you better, and possibly trying to assess how compatible you two can be in the long run. So don’t freak out because it’s a good sign she wants to move forward with you.


She talks about your future or career

A woman generally never gives much attention to where a man’s career is headed, until and unless she's interested in spending her life with him. In such cases, it becomes important to know what your future plans and goals are because in her head, she’s already calculating the cost of her wedding, having babies and moving (possibly) to a new house. Obviously, not all women are like that. Many won’t care how much you make while others might never broach the subject for fear of being called gold diggers.


She opens up to you

Women don’t usually open up emotionally to men, until and unless they have been BFFs for a while. And if that isn’t the case with you, then know that this is definitely one of the signs she wants a relationship with you because there is possibly no other reason in the world she would make herself emotionally vulnerable to you.


She’s comfortable touching you

When I mean touching you, I don’t mean eating your face. No. Notice the subconscious signs she’s displaying. If she’s comfortable with you, she will end up touching you, usually on your arms or shoulders to show her level of comfort with you. The sensation of touch is an often underrated indicator of a person’s feelings for you, so do keep an eye out for it.


She deletes her dating app

This is kind of self-explanatory, isn't it? Can you think of another reason for her to do this except that she has found her Mr. Right – you.


You are her go-to person

Be it 8 in the morning or 3 in the night – you’re always the first person she contacts if she has something to share. It could be good news, or it could be bad news. It could be that all she wants to do is to talk and vent her feelings with you, or it could just be an impulsive call because she wants to hear your voice. It could also be that she needs your advice or simply is looking for a different opinion. Whatever the reason, you’re the first person she thinks about and reaches to. She’s slowly making you a part of everything she does because eventually, she wants you to become a part of her life for good.


She wants to take care of you

Call it societal pressure or evolution – women tend to display motherly behavior towards people they have strong feelings for. Now that can be for friends, siblings or even the men they love. And they will go out of their way to ensure that their loved ones are living in as little distress as possible. So if she helps you with your errands, tells you to not go to bed on an empty stomach or reminds you to take your meds on time, you know that she’s showing signs she wants a relationship with you.


She discusses her future with you

The only reason she is doing this is because she’s so comfortable with you that she does not even realize when she’s over sharing and she’s hinting you that she is looking for a relationship with you.


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