Now, don’t all man on this planet want to know how to be irresistible to every woman they meet? The trick is actually simple; however, executing it is another matter entirely. Even so, know that there isn’t an instant hack or a magic spell that will make the ladies fall for you. But if you’re willing to genuinely make a change, then welcome! This is the perfect article for you.
How to Be Irresistible to Women
Work on yourself
Told you it isn’t as easy as you think it is. If you’re not able to attract women, then maybe the problem isn’t with them, it’s with you. Maybe it’s your body language, your aggressive stance, your nervous posture, your body odor, or your clothes. Whatever it is, ask opinions of friends and family and then work on it. This also ensures a secondary advantage for you – women LOVE men who are actively trying to improve upon themselves. Because nothing’s sexier than a man who knows he is flawed but still works towards being a better version of himself.
Prioritize your time
When you’re on a date with a woman, it’s rude to discuss personal matters on the phone or to have a quick official meeting at the same restaurant that you’ve taken her out to. No. Learn to manage your time or make a schedule if time management is tough for you, because your professional and personal lives shouldn’t overlap like this, especially when she’s involved.
Second, this prioritizing on your part shows her that she’s important enough for you to make adjustments in your schedule. And that’s sexy. Keep that in mind when you’re working on how to be irresistible to women.
Get used to talking to strangers
Because literally everybody in your life, except relatives, was at one point a stranger to you. So keep that irrational fear of yours aside. And start conversations with women anywhere – the mall, the supermarket, or the parking lot – whatever suits you. Remember, the more you talk to women, the higher your chances are of finding someone you like.
Confidence is a major turn on
Absolutely no woman on the planet likes a grovelling pushover who walks away at the first signs of a confrontation. Well yeah, you can complain about how some guys are born confident and the rest of you have to work your way to finding women. Or you can stop whining and work on yourself.
Use your body language
For starters, give her a warm and genuine smile when you first see her. It will make you appear nonthreatening and friendly. Don’t cross your arms while talking to her, maintain eye contact, accidentally brush against her hands when conversing with her and if at all possible, avoid speaking to her while standing right in front of her. Stand a little to the side; it just is another nonthreatening stance that you can assume when in the presence of ladies.
Do not see this one coming, do you? If you’re thinking about how to be irresistible to women, then smell great! Because the way a man smells is important to women. Not to mention how much it tells us about yourself. Just make sure you don’t go overboard with the perfume so much so that you end up being a walking talking perfumery. That’s a turn off too, you know.
Pursue with a purpose
You know what women don’t like? Men roaming about aimlessly and approaching women because they have nothing better to do. Find ways to make your girl feel special, jerks. You should approach her swiftly and with a purpose. It shows her that you know what you’re doing, and really, what’s more irresistible than a man who knows what he wants?
Mirroring is real
If you haven’t heard of it before, well, not many have. Mirroring is a phenomenon wherein the people who you’re in conversation with tend to subconsciously imitate your gestures. Psychology Today says that we tend to mirror a LOT more in social sittings and without doubt, this technique has proven to be contagious, not literally. So the more you laugh, the more she’s gonna laugh.
Show her that you respect her
Don’t roll your eyes. Respect is an over abused word but a sadly underrated quality. Here’s the thing – respect her, her body and her thoughts. She doesn’t want you to touch her? DON’T touch her. She is not okay sharing her personal details? DON’T push her. Get the drift?
Make her wonder
About what you’re up to. Not in a bad way, though. Like, you don’t want her to be thinking that you just want to use her for sex, do you? So anyway, here’s a trick. The next time she looks at you and you’re looking at her, just look away before she does. It shows her that you’re interested, but you’re also cool if she doesn’t want to hang out with you. Don’t let her be the first to look away. You’ll then lose points in her eyes. If you want to know how to be irresistible to women, always bear this point in mind.
Give her space
Personal space. Have you ever heard of it? If you haven’t, then it could possibly be why no girl wants to be with you. If you’re clingy, either emotionally or physically, you pretty much sign the death warrant on you being irresistible to women. Because who the fuck wants such a weakling in their lives? Not me, that’s for sure.
No means no
Please get it out of your head that when girls say no, it only means yes and that they want you to run after them. They don’t. When a woman says no, respect her decision of not wanting to be with you. The best you can do is to ask her why so that you can improve upon that quality of yours and do not repeat the same mistake with other women.