It’s just the two of you, and you can feel the energy flowing between you two. The guy you’ve been aching to kiss is right there and nothing can spoil this moment. You want to move things along naturally and smoothly, but you’re too shy to make that first move. We’ve all been there! You need to know the right moves to make for how to get a guy to kiss you without being too obvious. Once you’ve got his kiss, you can take your relationship to the next level!

How to Get a Guy to Kiss You


Keep a Kissable Pout

If you want to be kissed, you’ve got to have kissable lips! So take good care of them. Exfoliate your lips regularly and keep them well-moisturized at all times to prevent them from becoming dry and chapped. Don’t go overboard with lipstick and lip liner, just use a light layer of gloss to enhance the juiciness of your kisser. Guys aren’t into tons of makeup anyway, so too much lipstick could be a total kissing deterrent!


Draw Attention to Your Mouth

Show off your sexy lips now that you've known how to make them look super kissable! Draw his attention to your mouth by biting down on your bottom lip when he’s talking to you or looking at you. Guys love a sexy gesture of the mouth, and biting your lower lip is completely irresistible! An added bonus—biting your lip increases circulation and makes them look a bit more plump and rosy.


Freshen Up

Good oral hygiene is an important aspect of life in general, especially when you’re trying to get a guy to kiss you! If your mouth smells rancid, there is no way he’s going to lean in for the kill. Always keep some mints in your purse to pop after eating or drinking anything. Avoid chewing gum though, because when he does kiss you, you don’t want the gum to be an annoyance!


Get Close to Him

If you want to know how to get a guy to kiss you, you have to get closer to him, literally! He can’t kiss you from far away! If you lean in towards him, focus your thoughts on his kiss, and he will be able to pick up on your energy. He’ll know you want him to kiss you and if you’re close to him, he will be able to make that move.


Gaze Into His Eyes

Don’t stare like a creep, but maintain eye contact when he’s talking to you to show him that you’re hanging onto every word he says. Try gazing deep into his eyes, then glance down at his lips, and come back up to his eyes. You’re going to make him blush, and then you’ll know he’s dying to kiss you too! Practice your best bedroom eyes for the moment of truth.


Be Flirty

In order to get a guy’s attention, you have to be a flirtatious sexpot. You have to turn on your sexy giggle every time he says something even remotely funny, play with your hair, tease him a little bit, give him your best “come hither” look, bite down your lower lip, unabashedly blush, and pretend you’re a bit shy. Play up on your sexuality, and he will definitely pick up on your pheromones.


Stroke His Ego

Guys are pretty simple minded creatures. As long as you can make him feel like the strongest, most handsome, sexiest guy in the world, you’ll have him eating out of the palm of your hand. If he’s feeling those pre-kissing jitters, boost his confidence by stroking his ego as much as you can by complimenting him and affirming his manliness. For example, you can get him to lift something heavy and say something about his impressive muscles.


Touch Him

You know you’re not the only one who is nervous! Guys are shy sometimes too, and he probably does want to kiss you but he’s just tense about it. A good way to ease the tension and make him feel relaxed is to touch him. Use gentle, light caressing touches on his hand and arm to start. Once you see that he really likes it, you can try touching his leg as well.


Be Sweet

Whisper softly in his ear in your best flirty voice. Say something sweet to him, telling him what a nice time you’re having and that being with him makes you happy. Your soft voice and sweet breath on his ear will send chills down his spine. Pair your whispers with a gentle stroke of the cheek or neck to drive him really wild! Bonus points if your lips accidentally brush his earlobe.



If none of the aforementioned moves have worked, and you still don’t know how to get a guy to kiss you, you can always revert to this all-time classic move. Pretend that you’re cold, freezing! You can even throw in a shiver for effect! A true gentleman will immediately throw his arms around you and give you his jacket to make sure you’re warm. Ultimately this move will bring him closer to you so he can finally kiss you.


Have Confidence

Confidence is one of the sexiest personality traits a girl can have, so if you’re very shy and nervous, do your best to hide it! When he’s talking to you, use your body language to show him that you’re engaged and listening, and interested of course. Face him full on, lean in towards him and don’t cross your legs or arms. Exude confidence and sexiness, and he will plant one on you in no time.


Get Him Alone

You have to set the mood for your first kiss! It’s not likely that he’ll feel poised to kiss you for the first time in front of loads of people. Take him for a walk, go outside, and ask him if you can be alone with him. Do whatever it takes to get him away, so it takes the pressure off. When it’s just the two of you, he’ll feel more comfortable.


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