When you first start talking to a girl, it’s good to keep in mind some questions you’d like to ask in order to get to know her better. Girls love getting attention from a guy they like or are dating, and asking certain questions will show her that you’re really into her. And don’t go overboard and into interrogation mode. This will surely drive her away. You must ask questions that are open-ended and relaxed. Express your interest in her answers by paying close attention to even the tiniest details. Asking questions about her day or what she did last weekend will ease you into a more interesting conversation later. You will develop sincerity and honesty this way, and then you can gradually start asking more personal and even sexy questions. Use these ideas next time you’re chatting with your girlfriend, or the girl you like.

40 Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

Start off easy, with no-pressure questions like these to try to make her comfortable.

  1. What is your idea of the perfect day?

  2. What was the best part of your week?

    Easy and lighthearted, and the girl will appreciate you asking about how she’s been doing.

  3. What is your biggest fear?

  4. What is your happiest childhood memory?

  5. What is your favorite book/movie/song?

    Maybe you can find out that you’ve got some stuff in common, which can take the conversation to a new level.

  6. What is one movie or book that has had the most influence in your life?

  7. What is your favorite holiday/food?

  8. What do you usually do in your spare time?

  9. Do you have any phobias?

  10. What is at the top of your bucket list?

  11. Have you ever been arrested?

  12. Here is one of the questions to ask your girlfriend: Tell me about your most embarrassing moment.

    Gage her humor here; make sure you don’t tease her if she’s still clearly embarrassed.

  13. Have you ever tried (insert extreme sporting activity here)?

    Only ask this if you can add to the conversation with your own experiences or suggestions.

  14. What’s your least favorite thing about dating?

    Hopefully she’ll be off the market soon!

  15. Tell me about the most interesting place you’ve ever traveled to?

  16. If you could have one superpower, what would it be?

  17. What is your favorite kind of music to dance to?

    Usually girls love to dance, even if it’s in the privacy of their own bedroom. This question is a world better than “what is your favorite kind of music?” because it will evoke a fun and positive emotion from her.

  18. What do you think is the coolest thing to do in this city?

    Take notes! This is where you take her on a date.

  19. What was your first impression of me?

  20. Where do you find your power?

Once you’ve gotten the conversation going and she is being receptive to you, you can start to get more personal with questions like these below.

  1. What’s your favorite physical attribute on yourself?

    After she answers, tell her about your favorite physical attribute on her, and why.

  2. What’s your sign?

    Whether you believe in astrology or not, this is always a fun question.

  3. If you could change one thing about your past, what would you change?

  4. If you could change something about me, what would it be?

  5. Here comes of those funny questions to ask your girlfriend: What is your quirkiest habit?

  6. What is your perfect dream date?

    Again, pay attention here! The dream date she’s describing is the one she wants you to take her on.

  7. Have you ever been in love?

    Girls love love, and they love being in love, and talking about love, so asking about love with probably put her in the mood for love.

  8. Have you ever said “I love you” to someone?

  9. Do you believe in love at first sight?

  10. Do you have any tattoos? Where are they?

    Talk about her body, because you love it and you think she’s beautiful and sexy.

Now that the conversation is heating up a bit, try for a little sexiness. It’s very important to take note of her answers here, because you may have to put your knowledge in motion very soon.

  1. What is the wildest and craziest thing you’ve ever done?

  2. Have you ever gone skinny dipping?

    Now talk about her naked body. See where we’re going here?

  3. What makes you feel sexy?

  4. What turns you on?

  5. Where do you like to be touched the most?

  6. What is your favorite place to be kissed?

  7. Do you like to have your hair pulled?

  8. If I asked you to be naughty, would you be into it?

  9. I think you’re really gorgeous; do you get that a lot?

    Always take the opportunity to compliment her in a romantic way without being too sexually aggressive. She’ll eat it right up.

  10. What is the wildest and craziest thing you’ve ever done?

So what do you think about all the questions to ask your girlfriend listed above? Do you have better questions? Share with us in the comment session!


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