So… You’ve been out on a couple of dates and you’ve really hit it off. Everything seems perfect – you’re into her and she’s into you (obviously) but you guys haven’t had sex yet,which makes you a little nervous, because you don’t know when she’s gonna decide to sleep with you. I mean, a man’s gotta be prepared for that special night, right?

Signs a Woman Wants to Sleep with You

Keep in mind that she has to be showing a minimum of 4-5 signs mentioned below for you to even think of her wanting to have sex with ya!

She’s physical with you

Meaning that she’ll find ways of being seductive without really being seductive. Like, wiping a piece of food from your chin, or cleaning some cream on your upper lips… with her fingers… and then eating it. Or, you know, just staring at you seductively.


She touches you in intimate places

And no, I did not mean she’ll touch your dick, you perv. No woman’s ever gonna do that. No.

Intimate places are your thighs, behind your ears, neck and even your chest. If she touches you in those areas, whether accidentally or on purpose, then she’s signaling that she wants to get physical with you. Another way of touching you would be with her feet, where she’d playfully rub her feet on yours.


She’s sitting very close to you

One of the easiest signs a woman wants to sleep with you will be her physical proximity to you. It signifies a certain emotional proximity as well. And if you feel that despite there being a lot of room beside you and across you, she still choose to sit right next to you with pretty much no breathing space in between, she’s definitely into you. And if you play your cards right, she might even take you home tonight!


You get complimented often

Now this could be because of one or two things:

  • She’s really into you and pays more attention to you than she normally would. And this makes your efforts on grooming yourself stand out for her

  • She wants to flatter you so that you can warm up to her and become at ease when the subject of sex comes up.

Her compliments can also be sexual, like, “nice ass” or “nice abs”.


She laughs at your jokes

Guys, come on. You’re never as funny as you think you are and if she’s laughed at every single joke you’ve cracked, you’ve hit the jackpot. That’s because she’s interested in you and doesn’t want to offend you or give you mixed signals about her feelings towards you. If you’re not sure, then go ahead and crack a joke that you know is lame. If she laughs at it too, then now you’re certain!


She licks or bites her lips

It could be consciously or subconsciously, but either way this gesture means she’s sexually attracted to you. In fact, it’s one of the clearest signs a woman wants to sleep with you.


She shares her food with you

And even takes bites out of your plate. Some might go to the extent of eating food from the same spoon or fork as yours. And this is nothing but a very direct indication of the fact that she’s interested in having sex with you. I mean, come on! Why else would she eat from your plate, a gesture that’s reserved for family, friends or partners?


She’s turned on

By pretty much everything you do or say, really. And that’s because she’s already made up her mind to have sex with you.


She gives sexual innuendos

Look, women don’t often discuss sex openly with guys they’ve just met. So a way around is to use double meaning words or jokes, coupled with suggestive glance and touches, through which women try to put their point across.


She discuss sex

And the absolutely only reason she’ll ever do is because she wants to get laid that night.


She's interested in your sexual history

A lot of women are cautious, and before they have sex with a man, they want to know exactly what they’re getting themselves into (health or pleasure wise). So be prepared for indirect or even direct questions about your relationships, girlfriends, sex life, etc.


She offers you mints

If she offers you gum when you’re in the taxi dropping her off, then it’s because she’s preparing to kiss you. And depending on how that kiss is, it may or may not lead to sex afterwards.


She uses tongue to kiss you

Bruh, really? Do you really need to be looking up signs a woman wants to sleep with you when that woman is being this obvious with you? I mean sure she could be that way with the rest of the guys on her first few dates, but greater chances are that she’s giving you a preview of what’s in store for you. After the kiss, make a move. Or, you know, ask her if she’s interested in continuing the makeout session on her bed!


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