Different women have different qualities. But which of these qualities would you want when it comes to choosing a lifelong partner? Of course, you want someone who is capable of withstanding the challenges life may bring. You want someone who is for keeps, but how do you know if your girlfriend is “the one”? This article will tell you the different signs of a girl worth taking down the aisle.
Signs she Is a Keeper
She trusts you
She doesn’t flood you with messages or missed calls just to check out where you are, whom you are with, what you are doing and so on. She doesn’t get mad if you were not able to answer her calls because she understands that you are busy at work. This means she trusts you and she also has things to do on her own and will use her time properly.
One of the signs she is a keeper is her independence. She does her chores on her own and does not always expect you to do them for her. She buys her stuff with her own money and although she appreciates you opening doors for her, she believes that it is not a requirement in our modern society today.
She is confident
She eats what she wants and dresses herself the way she wants. She will not change the way she is just to please you. For her, if you can’t accept her the way she is, then it’s time to say goodbye.
She respects your friends
She knows that she may not like all of your friends, but still would act well-mannered in front of them. She respects your friendship with other people and does not force you to avoid the friends she doesn’t like. She will even try to look for a common ground, so she can get along with them or at least settle some differences.
She respects your personal space
One of the signs she is a keeper is her respect for your own personal space. As much as she wants to make things easier for the two of you, she lets you do the things you need to do on your own, like your laundry. What's more, she understands that you need some time alone especially after a fight. She will give you the space you need and she wants you to do the same for her.
She has goals of her own
She has her own dreams in life and will pursue them whether you will support her or not. On the other hand, she is also supportive on all your endeavors no matter how crazy they may seem.
She knows how to balance family, work and love
She spends time not only with you but also with other people she loves and doesn’t force you to tag along. She is capable of having fun with her friends without you but that doesn’t mean she loves you less. This is also one of the signs she is a keeper.
She is tactful
She remains calm and tactful when having arguments with you or when you have to discuss difficult matters especially about your relationship. She is a very good example of a mature and classy woman ready to face any challenge.
She is understanding
There may be times when she can get “a little” jealous, but she will never ask you to choose between her and your family. She understands that you don’t have to take sides because both are important to you.
She knows what fits you
She only buys you things that YOU might like mostly with her own money. You want to be yourself and that is what she wants for you too. A keeper will never force and squeeze something that isn't "you" into your life. For example, if you want some shoes, she will know what you like is a pair of leather shoes, board shoes or sports shoes.
Other Signs She Is a Keeper
She believes in vows and rings, but her love will stay pure and true even without these.
She does not force you to wear clothes she bought and try to change you to the man she wants.
Your intimate moments are never boring with her. She makes sure that the two of you have fun and are comfortable during these moments.
She knows how to forgive, which means she does not bring up issues from the past just to make you feel bad or win an argument. This is one of the signs she is a keeper.
She makes you laugh your heart out. Even with her simple antics, you just feel so happy when she’s around.
You can tell her anything under the sun, including your problems. She’s not only your girlfriend but your best friend too.