As you can very well tell by the title, we will share some insightful tips on clear signs that tell you she’s interested in having sex with you. But please do know that 1 or 2 of these signs by themselves don’t necessarily mean that she wants to hook up. It could very well be she’s either very open-minded or simply very comfortable with you. But when she ends up displaying at least 3-4 signs, then you can be more confident about what’s going on in her mind.

Signs She Wants to Hook Up

These signs are both for when you’re out on a first date, or when you’re scouring to find a date or a one night stand at a club or a bar.

She’s dressed provocatively

The 3 main reasons women wear provocative clothes are:

  • To show off the awesome curves that they have;

  • To get attention from everybody (both men and women) around them;

  • To signal men that yes, they are ready to get down and get dirty with them.


Get close physically

We all have our own private space which we do not let others in lightly. So, if there is a lot of space between you two, she hasn’t made up her mind about you or simply isn’t that interested in you. However, if she’s sitting or standing so close to you that you can smell her perfume (remember she has to do this by choice and not because of seating constraints), then she is ready to hook up with you.


There is physical contact

Touching your hand or shoulders especially when laughing at your jokes, stroking parts of your body, or having physical contacts of any type is one of the strongest signs she wants to hook up with you. Of course, it could also mean that she’s only interested in kissing you or at best, cuddling. You gotta go slow here because one wrong move could mean her branding you a perv.


She asks personal questions

If she wants to have sex with you, then she is bound to think certain pragmatic things. In this case, questions about how far your apartment is, your routine, if you have to wake up early in the morning and what not will definitely be asked. If she plans on having sex with you in the future, she will more likely ask questions about your schedule, when you get free at night, whether you live alone or with roommates, if you can hail cabs easily from your apartment, etc.


She talks about her sexual life

It’s the same rule as above. But it’s a move seldom employed by women because most aren’t confident enough to pull it off with men they barely know.


She laughs at your jokes

This is obvious, especially if you’re not a very funny guy. The only reason a woman would make the effort to laugh at something she doesn’t find funny is either because she’s interested in that man emotionally or sexually, or that she’s cozying up to him for a favor. Since the latter is not the case with you, it’s the former.


She gives French kisses

If she’s the one who has her tongue in your mouth, know that she’s showing signs she wants to hook up.


She might show interest in your relationships

Women are smarter than men when it comes to sex. Some of them show interest in your past relationships or your sexual activeness only because they are assessing for themselves if you’re worth going condom free. Casual questions, like “How goes your dating life?” or “When was your last date and how did it go?” can just be another way of her assessing your worth.


She says “I had a great time!”

This one is kind of self-explanatory. Girls generally don’t say this if they don’t mean it; sometimes, they might use “good” instead of “great” which might hint that the date didn’t go as well.


She cracks mature/sexual jokes

Women don’t generally get this comfortable with men, especially those they are meeting for the first or second time. The fact that she’s broaching this subject with you means that she’s interested in having sex with you. A variation could be that she uses quite a few sexual innuendos.


She plays with her hair

This could be a conscious move or could very well be a subconscious one. For example, putting her lock of hair behind her ear when she’s talking to you is a subconscious sign she wants you to see more of her face. However, if she does the same when you two are drinking or eating, chances are she’s doing it so that her hair doesn’t go in her mouth, drink or food.


She plays with her glass of drink

Or maybe even the straw in her drink. That’s a sign she’s scouring the crowd for a perfect mate for the night. This is one of the more subtle signs she wants to hook up, but if you know what you’re looking for, you can beat other clueless guys to it!


She’s dirty dancing with you

Wow. Really? You need me to explain this to you? She’s interested – take the hint!


She readily shares her food with you

Of course, this could simply mean she’s more interested emotionally in you. But if she’s showing 3 or more of the signs mentioned above, then you can be sure that her attraction towards you is definitely physical.


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