Lately, something just seems off in your relationship. Your usually loving, caring girlfriend has been cold and distant. You're starting to worry that she may want to break up with you. In this article, we will discuss some of the common signs that mean she wants to end things. Knowing the "signs she's losing interest in me" may be able to help you salvage your relationship. However, know that the more signs she's showing, the harder it will be to work things out with your girlfriend.

Signs She's Losing Interest in Me


So much drama

Many women get bored easily in relationships. They crave drama and excitement, whether that's negative excitement or positive excitement. So, your girlfriend may start fights over nothing or blow up at you over something small. There are a few ways you can handle this. You can either ignore it, fight back (create drama), plan something exciting to do together (like a vacation) so that she's not bored, or even turn the drama back on her by creating jealousy.


No time for you

While it's possible that your girlfriend is just going through a busy time right now, remember that people who want to spend time with you will MAKE time for you. If it seems like she's always busy or doing other things, it could be a sign that she wants to break up. If this happens to you, try to keep cool. Don't be so available to her, and show her that you have a life, too. When you do finally get to spend some time with her, be your awesome self and help her remember why she chose to be with you in the first place.


Never in the mood

Looking for more "signs she's losing interest in me"? When you two first got together, she couldn't keep her hands off you. Now, things have cooled significantly in the bedroom and it seems like she's NEVER in the mood. This is definitely a bad sign, and you should put some effort into fixing this aspect of your relationship. Try to spice things up. Also, keep in mind that there are several possible reasons why she may have lost sexual interest in you. Have you "let yourself go"? Or have you become too clingy and lost sight of your own identity?


Negative body language

You can tell a lot about a woman by her body language. That's right, your girlfriend may be able to lie about her feeling for you, but her body language will always tell the truth! Pay attention to your girlfriend's facial expressions and mannerisms. 

Signs that she may be losing interest include standing or sitting far away from you, pointing her feet away from you, crossing her legs in the other direction, avoiding all physical contact with you, staring out of the window instead of engaging in conversation with you, or meeting your gaze with no emotion whatsoever.


Negative eye contact

Similar to body language, a woman's eye contact can tell you all you need to know about the state of your relationship. A woman who is interested in being with you will make lots of eye contact. Her eyes will light up with emotion when she sees you. However, if your girlfriend starts avoiding eye contact with you, or she seems distracted or prefers to look around the room rather than making eye contact with you, you may have a problem on your hands.


No physical contact

When a girl is interested in you she'll probably want to show her affection by touching you. Actions like holding your hand, running her fingers through your hair, or putting her hand on your chest are signs that she likes you and wants to show it. She'll probably also be okay with showing affection towards you in public. If she was doing things like this at the beginning of your relationship, but now avoids your touch completely, it may be time to have a talk with her. Among the list of "signs she's losing interest in me", no physical contact is the biggest sign.


Frequent loss of contact

Communication is definitely an important part in a relationship, and a girl who likes you will probably want to stay in constant contact. Pay attention to how often she initiates contact with you. If you two used to text all day or talk on the phone every evening and now you barely hear from her, take that as a sign that she may be losing interest in you.


Other guys showing up in conversation

It's perfectly fine for your girlfriend to have guy friends, but take note if she suddenly begins talking about other guys (or one particular guy) often. If she's talking about other guys a lot, it means that she's also thinking about other guys a lot, and your relationship could be headed to nowhere fast.


More and more alone time

When you two first started dating, your girlfriend wanted to spend every spare second with you. Now, it seems like she's always making plans that do not include you. She always seems busy, even on your regular date night, and in fact it seems like she doesn't want to spend any time with you at all! The cold, hard truth in this situation is that she probably DOESN'T want to spend time with you. Time to have a talk about where this relationship is going.


Disappeared mutual support

Women love to feel taken care of in relationships, and they love to take care of their men as well. In the beginning of your relationship, you were always there for one another. But now, it seems like she doesn't need you at all. She doesn't lean on you for things, and instead seeks support from her friends and family. Even worse, she's never there for you when you need her. It could be that she doesn't love you anymore.


Girl's night all the time

Very often, women who are thinking about ending their relationship start spending more time with their single girlfriends. In this way, they are trying out single life again--seeing what it's like to go out, flirt with guys, and just enjoy being single. If your girlfriend is doing this it's a very, very bad sign.


A future without you

Among all "signs she's losing interest in me", this one is a sure sign and it's time to face the fact that this relationship is most likely over.

It's been a very long time since she mentioned your future. She never talks about what you two are going to do next week, next month, or next year. She doesn't mention getting married or growing old together. There's a simple reason for this, and unfortunately that reason is that she doesn't WANT to have a future with you.


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