Recently, a friend came to me complaining that a guy she liked called her “cute”. According to her, this was degrading because "cute" is a term used to describe children. In her imagination, "cute" represents a helpless infant that is just good to look at. She wanted my advice because I am a man, but I found it quite hilarious. What is the difference between a cute woman and a cute child? She was taking it at face value, but in reality the term "cute" can mean different things depending on the context.
When a Guy Calls You Cute, What Does It Mean?
The word "cute" is often used as an adjective to describe looks as well as behavior. In both cases, it serves as a compliment. When he calls you cute, he probably likes you. A man chooses to use the word because it is neither provocative nor suggestive. According to men, if a girl looks cute, it means she is adorable, just like a child. For instance, she may make crazy faces, dance secretly or wrap her hair behind her ears. It is the best word to use if the man does not want to create tension or seem creepy.
"Cute" may sometimes come off as degrading because it is often used when talking about puppies and children. But that does not mean a cutie is not attractive. It’s just that she’s not the kind of woman to hog all the attention at a club, although she could if she wants. She symbolizes innocent beauty and shows shyness, youthfulness and smooth features. If a guy calls you cute, it is usually in reference to your reserved temperament. He knows that the cute woman is a hidden beauty who is laid back and comfortable in her own skin.
Advantages of Being a Cute Girl
You Are Good Natured
Bitchy girls are repulsive. If you are good natured and collected, people will consider you to be cute. Charming girls are not stuck up and boring. And they do not overreact or lose their nerves easily. If you are considered cute, you are supportive, gentle, cheerful and jolly. When a guy calls you cute, your character is pleasant and attracts great company.
You Are a Pleasant Company
You can’t have fun if you take life too seriously. Cute girls are interesting company. If you are cute, it means you are fun to be around. You make people laugh and have a great time. Your character endears people to you and you bring life to the group. You are charming, lively and enjoyable because you entertain people.
You Are a Natural Beauty
guy says you are cute if you look good with or without makeup. A cute
woman is confident in her natural skin, color and casual look. It makes a
man wonder just how much more attractive you would be if you put on some makeup.
Imperfect Beauty Is Beautiful
Cute girls may be not perfect, but a cutie brings out goodness in the midst of imperfectness. She is real and does not try to fake anything to become more beautiful. A likable woman is wonderful just the way she is. She does not need to add anything else to enhance her beauty.
You Are Friendly
A cute girl gets along with others. She is not full of themselves and arrogant about her qualities. Cute girls hardly ever compete with other girls viciously and are not selfish. When a guy calls you cute, it means he thinks you are humble and you appreciate others. That's good judging from all aspect.
You Have a Pleasant Smile
guy says you are cute if you have a stunning smile. A guy will find you
fun to hang around if you’re always happy and interesting. Great
company is better than elegance. You are attractive because you
know how to have a good time and others enjoy being around you.
You Are "Wife Material"
Cuteness is related to happiness, respect and goodness. A woman who can’t get along with other girls will find it hard to cope with her future mother-in-law. A man will say you are cute if you are honorable, do not seek unnecessary attention and sideshows and do not harbor negative emotions.
You Are Youthful
You are cute if you do not look old and tired. The more you smile, the higher chances you have to age gracefully. You do not need to copy others and you look as good as ever. Besides, you accept reality calmly and are fine with things just the way they are.
You’re Not High Maintenance
the glamour queen who needs special attention, cute girls are not too
demanding. When a guy calls you cute, it means you have the charm and great looks but are not too demanding.
You blend in easily and do not think too highly of yourself. The cute
girl is easy to keep and not overbearing.