When it comes to your love life, you can easily get into a rut. If you're pressed for time, you may choose the simplest lovemaking option, or worse, skip it altogether. However, with a bit of effort, you can inject passion and creativity back into your relationship, and enjoy some crazy wildsex. The essentials are to improve your foreplay and to mix-up positions when making love. Here's how to have wild sex.
Part 1: How to Have Wild Sex
Look hot. Men are visual animals, so if you look great, he won't be able to resist. If you're going out to a party together or on a date, wear something sexy, and make an extra effort with hair and make-up. This way, you've already aroused your man and raised his excitement hours before you get physical.
Use dirty talk. Talking dirty is great for upping the sexual ante, and can be used casually throughout the day, as well as during foreplay and sex. Dirty talk doesn't have to involve bad language or crazy situations - just tell your man what you want to do to him, what you want him to do for you, and the wild sex that you'll have. Be vague to keep him guessing!
Become a great kisser. Men love kissing just as much as women. If you can perfect your technique and try out new things, kissing can be fantastic for foreplay. The main things to remember are to keep it passionate and intense. Here are some kissing techniques to try:
Take one of his lips between yours and gently squeeze.
Softly bite his lips, being careful not to hurt him.
Move about from his lips to his neck to his ears.
Explore the rest of his body.
Use your hands. Touch and massage can be a great way of exploring your man's body and giving him pleasure. Here are some tips for sexy touching:
Change the pressure, alternating between light feathery touch and strong grabbing. You can even use your nails for a bit of rough play.
Very softly trace your fingers up his arm to make him feel incredible.
Concentrate on the most sensitive areas of his body – his head, neck, cheeks, ears, and the inside of his thighs.
Give him a scalp massage. This is a great way of building intimacy with your partner, regardless of whether it's during foreplay, in the middle of lovemaking, or just relaxing together on the couch. Keeping your hands loose without using your nails, message the back of his neck or around his ears, then gradually work your way up to the top of his head. Once you've got there, work your way back down, gently tracing over his head with your fingers.
Be confident. Men love sexy, confident women. Leave your insecurities at the door – this man wants to have wildsex with you and loves your naked body, so don't be shy! Remember that during the heat of sex, any perceived body flaws will be the last thing on either of your minds!
Use your voice. Telling your man exactly how much you're enjoying yourself is a massive turn-on for him. Don't be afraid to moan, groan, or even shout and scream if the mood takes you. Add a bit of dirty talk and watch him go crazy.
Instruct him. Men are not mind-readers, so the only way to let him know exactly what you want is to tell him! You can help him with noises and encouraging words when he's getting it right, or give him a bit of guidance when it's needed – either way, he'll appreciate it. Men love pleasing their partners, so let him know what you want.
Experiment. The same-old lovemaking routine gets boring, so make sure you mix it up from time-to-time. Open up about your sexual fantasies and let him tell you his. Be firm if you don't want to do something, but don't judge your partner for his desires. It's important to find new sexual experiences where you're both comfortable and enjoying yourselves.
Part 2: 9 Perfect Wild Sex Positions You Can Take
Missionary. This position doesn't sound too wild, but you'd be surprised. It's one of the best positions for clitoral stimulation, which makes it high on most women's lists of favorite positions. The trick is to use diagonal penetration, rather than straight in, to get maximum pressure on the clitoris.
Doggie style. Many couples love having sex in doggie style, as it allows both partners to adjust their positions for maximum comfort and pleasure. However, he may wish to use his hand, her hand, or a sex toy for rubbing the clitoris.
Reverse cowgirl. This is where the man lies on his back, and the woman rides him facing towards his feet. Women love this position as it allows easy access to the clitoris, whereas men enjoy the view.
Coital alignment. This starts off in the missionary position with the man's full weight on the woman. She wraps her legs around his waist, and he moves forward. The base of his penis should be rubbing directly against her clitoris, giving great stimulation, and the couple should move rhythmically together.
Spooning. Spooning is an intimate position for both vaginal and anal sex, and it's great for lazy sex first thing in the morning. The position provides extra stimulation to the front of the vagina or rectum, and gives a nice tight fit for the penis.
Criss-cross. In this position, the woman lies on her back, with the man on his side. She drapes her legs over his hip while he enters her. This leaves both of your bodies free, so one of you can easily reach down to stroke the clitoris.
Girl on top. This classic position allows the woman to take control over the depth and speed of intercourse, as well as giving easy access to her clitoris. The guy can help her by lifting her hips up and down with his hands.
Ankles up. Positioning the lady's ankles up over the guy's shoulders allows for deeper penetration and stimulation of the legendary G-spot for intense pleasure. The same effect can be achieved by the woman bending her knees or placing her feet on the man's chest.
Pillow fun. Pillows can be used to alter the angle of penetration. For example, placing a pillow or cushion under the woman's bottom can increase the pressure on her G-spot. You'll need to experiment with different angles to find the best position for you.